Having No Expectations, stating this is an expection of NO! Think about this. Expectation rules Outcome! What we think about, what we focus on we get.
Having expectations of someone is a sure fire way to set yourself up for disappointment. The obvious thing to do to avoid this, is not to expect anything right? It’s definitely easier said than done. I am a person who follows the Four agreements, which are: So when someone doesn’t keep their word or they … More 3 things to do when you feel Disappointed
Is my Future pre-destined? Some will say, No! Others are dead set on it being Yes! That your future is set from the time you are born. I believe YES, it is pre-destined, but that it’s not set in stone. I believe its based on what you are doing, what you are thinking and what … More Is my future pre-destined?
I wasn’t happy. I felt like people didn’t understand me, I didn’t have many close people in my life. I was sick of myself if I am completely honest. I was a victim. When someone finally called me out on my behaviour and told me I was being a victim my initial response was anger, … More How to create a different outcome.
The title sounds cheesy. The image the title might conjur of self love is masterbation. No, that’s not what this article is about at all. I got your attention though.. lol What I am referring to, is looking after yourself. Doing things to calm your mind or slow yourself down. As a Mother this act … More Self love
I found a cute quote today and it had a profound effect on me. It is this: Here’s why; I have existed for a huge part of my life. So what? I hear you thinking. Well, existing isnt living. It’s just surviving. Just making it through another day. Just scraping by. Just… It isn’t appreciating … More Living
I don’t think you can be prepared enough for moving a whole house to a new location! I had all the boxes packed, utilities booked, mover ‘aka strong boyfriend!’ organised yet still the moving day was still chaotic. It was also ridiculously humid. It rained just when we started unloading the truck. All of … More Moving House
https://www.bustle.com/articles/147665 After recently reading an interesting piece by JR Thorpe titled: “9 Signs you have a controlling partner” (the link is above!), I came away from it rather gobsmacked at how many of the warning signs listed mirrored many of the same patterns in my previous failed relationships. My initial reaction was disappointment in having … More Abusive Relationships
We were on our way for our first trip away as a family. It’s a long weekend here in Melbourne and we chose an idyllic spot on Victoria’s coast called “Phillip Island”. A strange feeling came over me on the drive there. For two reasons, firstly the contentment and joy I feel to be on … More Family Trip